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Do you want to get real satisfaction in your sexual life? Do you want to establish a deep and understanding connection with your lover? Do you want to make love for many hours and many times a week? Do you want to experience long "full body orgasms"? Do you want to feel energetic and increase your health? And for women, do you want to get rid of your problems during your period? Interested? Yes, this is all possible, if you really want it! The Tantric and Taoist spiritual traditions in India, Tibet and China have a long history of dealing with lovemaking in a way that differs fundamentally from the "ordinary" way of lovemaking. These traditions believe that the Tantric way is actually the natural way of making love. Everyone is different. Everyone will experience different things and thus, will make love in a different way. You and your partner are the most important teachers because only you and your partner will feel what is really happening in your bodies. Listen carefully to your bodies and observe critically your mind. Only when you clearly notice what is happening, will you be able to find the right balance to advance in your lovemaking. The Loving Way Why the loving way? First let’s see why the "ordinary" way is not that optimal. There are many problems that are usually related with the "ordinary" way. After the climax, an outward orgasm, people lose interest in each other and often don’t feel satisfied. You feel that you have lost energy and you are not aroused anymore. You are discharged. Many men have the problem of premature ejaculation, which also results in less satisfaction for the woman. The lack of satisfaction sometimes makes people look for ways to make their love life more interesting, like different positions, fantasies, "sex-toys" and pornographic material. This to get more aroused. But this high excitement also increases the chance of premature ejaculation. People are getting more and more obsessed with sex and are forgetting to love. This is especially true for a lot of men. Women usually are more interested in a sexuality that is more slow and intimate. This difference between man and woman can create problems in the relationship. So what is the problem? The Tantric philosophy gives a clear answer. By focusing on an outward orgasm you lose your sexual arousing and thus your energy. Many sportsmen and spiritual people have already known this for centuries. With having sex you lose energy. This is especially true for men because with ejaculation, men also are losing the source of sexual energy, the semen. This precious semen is the source of your pleasure and a lot of energy. When you ejaculate, you will be out of this source for a few days. Women are losing most of their energy during their periods. The problems concerning menstruation are usually getting less when you start making love the Tantric way. The practices described in this document will after some time greatly reduce the amount of bleeding. The Tantric philosophy is that if you are sexually aroused you are charged. Instead of discharging, you should keep your precious energy. Together you can rise even higher if you’re not focused on a climax but on dwelling in the space of love and in union with each other. This requires a good control over your body and a different state of mind that has to be learned. Once you master the Tantric way you can experience internal orgasms and states of bliss and love that are way beyond the "ordinary" and establish a deep connection with your lover. Stop thinking that sexual arousing should result in a climax. Get used to being aroused, being charged. This energy is precious don’t lose it.
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