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Some of the biggest problems for daters are those common sexual issues they face when the relationship goes well. It's all lovely when you're dancing, having dinner and chatting over coffee, but what if you have a sexual issue when the lights go down, and you get more intimate? There are several ways this can be challenging. The biggest issues which men face include rapid ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, and anorgasmia. Most men will have experienced premature ejaculation at some point in their life, because it is much the most common male sexual problem: over 75% of men ejaculate within three minutes of penetrating their partner during lovemaking. If you're a man, the best way to deal with this is to make sure that your partner has enjoyed her orgasm through cunnilingus or manual play before you penetrate. That way, she'll be satisfied and you'll enjoy the excitement of a new sexual partner without worrying that you look foolish because you come too quickly. And it's always tactful to remind her that you're ejaculating so quickly is because you're so excited to be making love to her! The next most common male problem is erection problems, which affects about one man in ten at any one time. This is really a fairly simple problem to solve in many cases, especially when the problem stems from first time nerves. If you're a man and you lose your erection, don't panic, simply tell her that this just reflects your anxiety about making sure she's happy in bed, and then give her pleasure through cunnilingus or manual play, and next time you'll be more confident and able to have sex without losing your erection. A great way to boost your self- confidence is to buy some Viagra, which you can obtain from your doctor, and take it before you make love. This will help you to overcome any sexual issues about losing your erection. The third most common male sexual problem is called delayed ejaculation. This is a slightly more unusual problem where a man cannot ejaculate during sex despite prolonged thrusting during intercourse. It's often a major issue for men and women, which causes conflict and unhappiness in a sexual relationship. If you're a man who has had this problem in lovemaking, there is a simple self-help program on the website listed below in the resource box. For women, the most common problem is difficulty in reaching orgasm during sex, a condition called anorgasmia. Often it's caused by a woman's nerves about sex, or the fact that she has problems with her body. If you're a woman with problems coming during sex, you might like to look at the website below which has a treatment program you can use at home to deal with inability to reach orgasm, and which should make sex into a happy event which gives you both great satisfaction. Finally, for couples, there's the perennial challenge of which sexual position to use in lovemaking. We all enjoy the basic man on top and woman on top positions, along with rear entry and perhaps the side by side sex position as well, but it's certainly the case that variety is essential when it comes to lovemaking. If you'd like to explore more, there's a tasteful website which can show you all you need to know about sex positions, called Sex Techniques and Positions. Just enter "Sex Techniques and Positions" into Google and it will come up.
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Rod Phillips is author of How To Reach Orgasm and Ejaculate Normally During Sex. You can find more articles about sex positions at Sex Techniques and Sex Positions. If you want to overcome premature ejaculation, see Beat Rapid Ejaculation!.
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