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27 September 2007


Indoor Air Pollution | Self-Defense | Mid Life Crisis | Sports Nutrition | Starbuck's Coffee | Erectdile Dysfunction

The aim of argument, or of discussion, should not be victory,
but progress.
- Joseph Joubert


This eZine (No. 98)

Wellness:
Is it Perfume or Poison?
LifeSkills:
The Seven Components of Self-defense
MindPower:
Mid Life Crisis- The Emergence of Our True Self
Nutrition:
Efficient Sports Nutrition Products 
SkinCare:
Starbuck's Coffee May Help Prevent Skin Cancer? 
Sexuality:
Stress and Erectile Dysfunction


Is it Perfume or Poison?

By:  Ainsley Laing

Here’s the scenario:  you are on an elevator. The elevator stops and in walks someone with WAY too much cologne on
and the smell overpowers you.  Your sinuses start to hurt and you get a bit sick to your stomach.  The smell of the cologne stays with you, in your hair, clothes and nose for quite a while after – hence the sick feeling does too.
Yuk.  It’s hard not to think how inconsiderate this person is.

It’s not just the smell that is inconsiderate.  Have you ever thought about the chemicals that are used in fragrances?  Many of them are not good for you to breathe or to put on your body!

This week Time Magazine did an article on air fresheners and how many brands have been removed from the market due to high levels of phthalates. Phthalates are estrogenic in nature, which is believed to contribute to certain cancers. Phthalates are used to dissolve and carry fragrances and soften plastics, sealants and similar compounds.  They are commonly found in cosmetics, paint, nail polish and plastics.

This peaked my interest on fragrances in general – so, as usual, I did some research.
 
Although fragrances have been used for centuries, they were made from plant and animal sources. Modern fragrances are primarily synthetic materials developed since World War II.

Did you know that 600 or more chemicals may be used in a single fragrance, and 95% of chemicals used in them are derived from petroleum? Why? Petro-chemicals in perfumes are less expensive and more easily available than the natural ingredients.

Many chemicals used in fragrances are considered hazardous waste disposal chemicals!  Synthetic fragrance compounds accumulate in human tissue and are found in breast milk.

An EPA study in 1991 listed the 20 most common chemicals used in “fragrance products” which are used not only in perfumes but to scent shampoos, soaps, deodorants, lotions, creams and other beauty products.  Here’s the list – it speaks volumes on its own:

1. Acetone
2. Benzaldehyde
3. Benzyl
4. Benzyl Alcohol
5. Camphor
6. Ethanol
7. Ethyl Acetate
8. Limonene
9. Linalool
10. Methylene Chloride
11. a-Pinene
12. g-Terpinene
13. a-Terpineol
14. 1,8-Cineole
15. b-Citronellol
16. b-Myrcene
17. Nerol
18. Ocimene
19. b-Phenethyl Alcohol
20. a-Terpinolene

There are relatively few studies available concerning the use and exposure to fragranced products. Testing by the cosmetics/fragrance industry focuses on skin effects without taking into account respiratory, neurological, or systemic effects. There is little regulation of fragrance by regulatory agencies.

Not only is too much perfume often offensive to many, more and more people consider it to be an indoor air pollutant.  Some are quite vocal about their opposition to the use of perfumes.  For years, I thought I was the only one who got headaches from strong perfume!

There is a movement afoot to curtail the use of fragrances in the work place. Many businesses, at the request of their employees, are creating fragrance-free policies.  Given that many people are highly affected by allergies, this makes sense (pun intended, get it? … sense…scents…).

But seriously, given that we are bombarded by more and more hazardous chemicals and pollution, having less on our bodies, homes and in our workplaces must be better for ALL of us.

Breathe deeply and live well!

About the Author:
Ainsley Laing, MSc. has been a Fitness Trainer for 26 years and writes exclusively Body for Mind  eZine. She holds certifications in Group Exercise, Sports Nutrition and Personal Fitness Training.  She is also a professional engineer and a mom. To find more articles by Ainsley, go to http://www.bodyformind.com or the blog at http://www.bodyformind.blogspot.com

Sources:
Neurotoxins: At Home and the Workplace, (Report by the Committee on Science & Technology, U.S. House of Representatives, Sept.16, 1986. (Report 99-827)
“Living Healthy in a Toxic World,” David Steinman 1996
“Stink-Free Office Mates,” Natural Health Magazine, Nov./Dec. 2000.
http://www.ourlittleplace.com/chemicals.html "How Fressh is the Air Freshener?" http://www.time.com/time/health/article/0,8599,1664954,00.html?cnn=yes


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The Seven Components of Self-defense -Building Blocks of an Effective Personal Safety Strategy

by Randy LaHaie

The study of self-defense cannot be easily defined with quick, easy, and over simplistic solutions. Acquiring a legitimate sense of control over your personal safety requires knowledge and skills in seven key components.

Neglect any of them, and you do not have a complete and effective safety strategy.

Component #1 Survival Psychology

The need to feel safe and secure is ingrained in all of us. Many psychologists consider the fear of interpersonal violence to be a "universal human phobia." The thought of becoming the victim of a criminal or violent act is disturbing. Unmanaged fear or a sense of helplessness can erode our health and the quality of our lives. Being safety conscious does not mean being fearful, paranoid, or afraid to leave your house. Quite the contrary, self-defense knowledge and skills build a sense of control essential to a sense of security and well-being.

Survival psychology consists of three broad areas:

  1. Understanding and managing FEAR
  2. Motivating yourself to be "RESPONSE-ABLE" for your personal safety through study and training, and...
  3. Understanding the impact SELF ESTEEM has on emotional resilience, crisis performance and victim selection.
Component #2 Survival Intelligence

Your most powerful weapon is your brain. Understanding the dynamics of confrontations will have a big impact on your ability to recognize, avoid or respond effectively to violence. 

Survival Intelligence is the cultivation of knowledge, intuition, awareness and assessment skills. Every violent situation is preceded by pre incident clues. Knowing how to recognize and respond to them is the essence of successful self-defense.

Component #3 Understanding Victim Selection

Psychologists showed a videotape to penitentiary inmates who were doing time for violent crimes. The tape depicted several people going about their day-to-day activities. The inmates were instructed to indicate which of the people on the tape they would select as victims.

The researchers were surprised at the consistency of the selections made. An analysis of the results identified common traits unique to those who were selected and those who were passed over.

Not everyone will become the victim of a violent crime. In fact, for everyone who is victimized, dozens more are evaluated and passed over. By understanding first of all that there is a selection process, as well as the criteria of a "desirable target", you can influence that process.

People who are trained in self-defense are seldom confronted. Their awareness and skills (movement, posture, etc.) project unconscious signals to a predator that they are not an easy target. The predator looks elsewhere.

Component #4 Recognizing Predatory Behavior

There are no unique physical characteristics that separate people who victimize others from those who don't.

Usually, they look just like anyone else. However, behavior is another matter.

Most communication is non-verbal. We transmit much of our intent in the way that we communicate and behave.

There are essentially two types of "bad guys" to be aware of. The predator, who deliberately sets out to locate, select and attack a suitable victim and the ticking time bomb. The latter is emotionally unstable and prone to violent outbursts. Unlike the predator, who is more methodical in his approach, the time bomb will lash out at
anyone who happens to get in his way.

By understanding predatory selection and attack methods, you are able to recognize and avoid them. This involves learning to detect and recognize behavior cues that identify a potential assailant before the selection process is complete.

Component #5 Response Option Theory

It is dangerous and negligent to imply that there is a single solution to ALL threatening situations. There is, in fact, a range of responses available to you. The situation and circumstances will dictate which of them is most appropriate.

When learning a response system, you must also consider the legal consequences of your actions. We all have the legal right to defend ourselves. However, at what point does an effort to defend yourself become excessive? How do we know how much force to use to defend ourselves? Any self-defense program should discuss your legal right to
defend yourself, how to respond appropriately and how to justify your actions.

There are 5 categories of response options relevant to confrontational situations. They are:

  1. Compliance
  2. Escape
  3. De-escalation
  4. Assertiveness
  5. Fighting Back
Which one is the most appropriate depends on the circumstances and nature of the confrontation. You should possess skills in each response category as well as the knowledge about when each is applicable.

Component #6 Prevention Tips

Prevention tips are simple, precautionary steps you can take to reduce the likelihood that you will become the victim of a crime. However, these lists of "do's and don'ts" could number in the hundreds.

It is unlikely that you will remember them all. You don't need to. By understanding the operative principles behind prevention tips, you can improvise safety tactics "on the fly". Armed with this knowledge and your own common sense, you can incorporate those tips with which you feel comfortable and which are conducive to your lifestyle.

Component #7 Training Methods

Competence is the result of your physical conditioning, skill and attitude. Effective self-defense skills are the result of gradually and consistently incorporating safety habits into your life. For those who do take the time to enroll in a self-defense class, realize that without review and practice, 70% you learned will be forgotten.

There are many benefits to adopting the study and practice self-defense into your regimen. It can be used to improve fitness, to manage stress and to create safer habits that can reduce the potential of being accosted or attacked.

The most frequent questions I am asked by seminar candidates are: What can I do to follow-up the training I received? What can I do to feel more confident and build on my skills? That is the primary purpose of my web site.

Conclusion

In the future, I will provide more in-depth information within each of the seven components. I will include articles, recommend good books, and highlight resources to improve your self-defense knowledge and skills. If you have any feedback, suggestions or questions, please send me email. I'd like to hear from you.

In the meantime, be "response-able" and stay safe!   

If you have any questions or comments please click on my name to email me:

Randy LaHaie
Protective Strategies

About the author:
Randy LaHaie is the owner of Protective Strategies, a training and consulting company providing personal safety training to individuals, high-risk professionals and law enforcement officers. He has an extensive self defense and use-of-force background spanning almost 30 years. The Protective Strategies Self Defense Resource Center is located at: http://www.ProtectiveStrategies.com . Randy can be contacted by email at: Randy@protectivestrategies.com 



Mid Life Crisis- The Emergence of Our True Self

By Frankie Picasso

Mid life Crisis is not a disease or an event that one can avoid. It afflicts everyone who lives through their middle years. There is no warning as to when it will hit you, but when it does, it likely will come at the worst possible time, but then again, when is a good time for a meltdown?

Most likely your time will differ from that of your friends and others close to you like your Husband or Wife, since our Middle years can begin anytime from our mid thirties through one’s fifties and everyone is different.

Don’t even think you can avoid mid life Crisis, because you can’t! No amount of money or influence can get you out of this one. How you endure the transformation and to what degree you suffer or not, will vary as widely as those who experience it. You know the cliché, forewarned is forearmed, so knowing what will happen and how to survive the experience in tact, can go a long way. Right!

I may have been exaggerating slightly about how ominous Middle aged Crisis can be, because I wanted to grab your attention. However, we have all heard the jokes about middle aged crisis and know that within all jokes, there does contain a grain of truth. The truth here is that some of you will experience a major shift in your lives, while for others the change may be more gentle. Do not doubt that change is on its way. It is inevitable! You may not have say on if or when it will happen, but you do have a say in how you will deal with it. Each and every one of us is equipped with a silver bullet in our personal arsenal to deploy as we see fit. This is something that you may already be using or something that you have yet to take out. It matters not because you never run out of it. It is the most effective weapon we have and that is Attitude!

As a Life Coach, we use our attitude and perspective to help our clients deal with many issues in their lives until their own attitude can take over. In fact, we often say that if we only have one tool to use, Perspective would be it. How you view things, and the attitude you take toward life’s ups and downs, (your perspective), has a dramatic effect on how you cope. Are you a glass is half full or half empty person? Do you laugh in the face of danger or do you run and hide in terror? Are you someone who is afraid of change or do you embrace it like me? Do you see problems or opportunities for improvement? Positive and negative personalities are obviously opposites of each other, with the extremes differing in folks all up and down the spectrum of the pole. I can certainly find folks who exemplify the ends of the pole, those with very strong outlooks, but for those who are fence sitters, you now have an opportunity to change your attitude. Only you know how you experience the world around you, but I know that a positive or negative attitude will affect how you experience what I have coined, The Emergence of our True Self. How would you like to go through life? Seeing opportunities or finding problems everywhere? The choice is yours.

Look at this time as an amazing opportunity for you to take a peek behind the veil, the cloak of mystery that is you. Avidly seek out the answers to questions that have plagued mankind since the beginning of time. I know that as a child I lay in bed and many times looked up at the sky and wondered, “Why am I here”? “What is my purpose?” “How can I be more than I am?” These are the questions that will now be answered for you. This is your time to finally solve the mystery. View this time as a positive experience. This is your time and it has been given to you so that you can emerge as your True Self. Feel all of it; embrace the experience, even the tough stuff. Remember the butterfly and its struggle to emerge from it’s cocoon. You may struggle through this time but you will emerge a more content person for it. I am positive about this.

Middle Aged Crisis, struck this week and it happened to a man we will call Dan. Let’s see how it begins so we know what to look for. Dan is a slightly paunchy, balding middle-aged man in his late 40’s, whose one attempt of rebellious attitude towards his wife, was to go against her thrifty nature and adorn the front end of his mini van with a ‘bra”!

One day, Dan left his ‘bra’ behind and came home wearing a shiny new candy apple red corvette instead. It looks like the van was traded in for this gorgeous sexy rolling piece of penis envy. After the ‘big wow’ fell out of your dropped jaw, was your next thought the same as mine “now there’s a guy whose wife is going to kill him”? Where are the kids going to sit? Is Dan a classic case of a man having a mid life crisis?!”

Will his ‘search” for himself end here or will Dan take it a step further? It seems that several of the guys in Dan’s office have traded their wives of 3o years for 30 yr.old wives. We don’t know if Dan knows any 30 yr; old women so we will have to wait and see about that. Dan seems to be the poster boy for Middle Aged Men in crisis but what about woman? Are they immune to mid life angst and do men and woman manifest their symptoms in the same way? Joan Rivers and her G-force facelift might be the perfect example of a woman who is still searching for more in her life but can’t get past her mirror. We often joke about woman and their hot flashes, but do they wake up all sweaty and then head out in the morning to buy sexy cars or is there another measure of being unsatisfied they go for? I have a few lady friends who were the very last women in the world I EVER expected to radically deviate from their MOM role. It seemed at 40 something, they woke up one day and traded their beautifully decorated home, mommy and wifely duties for a basement apartment and freedom. Did it mean they loved their children less? Nope, it just meant that they were compelled to find out who they were after being a mom and wife. Yes, a few became what is commonly referred to today as Cougars, woman who prey on younger men, but for the most part, they seemed to be genuinely seeking themselves. Either this was something that was lost, or something they never had in the first place.

So is Mid life Crisis a valid condition or an excuse to be selfish and make up for poor choices along the way? Is it a human condition that we will all experience in varying degrees as we pass through their middle ages, or is it reserved for those who share certain personality traits? Is it possible that it is related to female menopause or male Andropause? Do hormones have anything to do with the ‘stress and distress of those in the eye of this storm? Are these people as out of control as they sometimes seem to be?

I am not a doctor and do not know the answer to these questions but I do know as a Life Coach and a woman in her middle years, that there seems to be a great many people in this age category who are seeking and searching for something that will fill a part of them that is missing. They have a great desire for something more in their life, but what that MORE is they don’t know. It is a time of personal reflection and for some breaking out of a mold that has held them for many years. Perhaps you know someone who has quit their executive position or walked out on their 30 year marriage. It doesn’t always make sense, this behaviour, but there is common theme. CHANGE!

It seems that many are seeking their destiny, and the meaning of life. They want to know what their purpose is and where they fit into the Grand Scheme. They want to know what this thing called LIFE is all about, and they are seeking their soul, their soul mates and questioning long held beliefs. Spirituality is a common theme, and many search for their connection to something larger than the known world and for answers they go to the Unknown world

A metamorphosis is taking place and I see it as our third great struggle of life. The first is being born, the second is adolescence and now this time I will coin, The Emergence of Self. The emergence because it is our true self we are seeking. Not the daughter, son, mother, father, doctor, cook or any other label we have put on ourselves, but OUR true SELF , our true soul, the nature of who we really are. It seems this is a time where anything can happen and does.

Sometimes those who are most surprised by what happens next are the seekers themselves.

As adolescents we go through the change together, it is expected, so resources are in place to help us deal with it. Our families and teachers are there for us, supporting the change. Now in our mid 40’s- 50’s, it seems we face this change alone. No longer are our buddies, families or teachers there to support us. In fact, it may be that those closest to you don’t understand why you are contemplating the things you are. They may argue that you are making a big mistake and you don’t know what you are doing. Even if this is true, and in many cases it is, there doesn’t seem to be anything to do about it except ride it out.

Have you ever wondered at the timing of all this? Why is it so important to KNOW right now? Why upset the apple cart at this stage of your life?

Perhaps it is so that our time here is not wasted in the larger sense. Many of us as children had a dream or a goal. I think that this first memory may be the truth of who we really are and why we are here.

How many of us have stayed true to who we were? I know that there have been many times in my life that duty as a daughter, a mother, and even a wife have taken precedence over who I wanted to be. So maybe this frustration, this time of wanting is really the only way to help us break the chains of ‘good behaviour’ and allows us the time to search for our lost selves or if you believe in the metaphysical then perhaps we are waking up to what brought us here in the first place, our contract or mission. Have you felt that there is a master plan but you haven’t been let in on the details?

The there is a great secret, albeit unknown to you, and almost like a cosmic joke, it is at your expense. Why does this transformation take place? Is there a way of escaping it? I think not. It seems to me a natural progression to a higher state of being if we are lucky. It seems we all go through the process, albeit at slightly different ages and degrees of angst. I believe that this is one “Crisis” that is supposed to happen and rather than describe it as a crisis we could rename it as a transformation. We have all have known a “Dan”, a 50 something guy who finally buys his corvette, or his Harley, leaves his wife or leaves his job- any or all of these are fairly common and classic crisis behaviour. As I said earlier, Women are not immune either. We can all envision the Cougar, a woman in her mid to late 40’s who used to be Suzy Homemaker and is now on the prowl for a 2o something guy to make up for her boring life.

On the outside, this behaviour seems selfish and I suppose in some ways it is. But remember, this Emergence is about self and change and change never comes easily. There is always a struggle and in this instance, doing what is opposite in nature of what one has always been done may be one of the catalysts to the next step. These folks are in the midst of a chemical and physical transformation. Alchemy is taking place. When all is said and done, they will be different.

They are reaching out for their world to make sense and hopefully when all is said and done, they will have found peace. Peace within themselves and peace with their outside world. We know that these folks want more, but and the sexy car, younger mate is not the whole answer because change on the outside does not equate with change on the inside. I feel that this transformation may actually be harder on us than adolescence. When we are young, we have out parents to support us. We walk en mass with our friends to school and we are all going through stuff together. But mid life, we do that one by ourselves and many times, we wreak havoc on the lives of those we love the most. This change, this metamorphosis, cannot likely be stopped, anymore that you can stop breathing, but for some, it comes with great cost. Our bodies change- we don’t child bear anymore. We have wrinkles and grey hairs sprouting from places they aren’t supposed too. Our skin on our hands begin to thin and become translucent, showing the blue of our veins. We fear we are losing our sexuality, our vitality and our ability to be ‘seen’ as one of the players. We fear this invisibility and we fight to be more than we are, because we want to stay in the game. We also know that we are more than we are showing. We wake to an unknown dream or assignment and strive to fulfill our life’s mission, but the guide book is missing. The map is gone and our hands flail in the wind seeking something solid to grip onto. It’s a turbulent time until one day, you wake up and your life begins to make sense again. You start to realize what is important. Who you are and what you are passionate about. You know what you love and whom you love and you have a sense of the greater picture. You know why you are here. You understand your ties to the past and what you bring to the future. The Emergence of Self will happen whether you plan for it or not. At some point in your life mid life, an amazing discovery of self will take place, and I hope that you complete your transformation all the way until you feel at peace within your heart and the world around you. For those of you who are wondering what signs to look for or if you are currently experiencing your transformation, below you can find a list of common features:

Typical features of mid-life include:

  1. Experiencing healthy dissatisfaction……..yearning for more…..is this it??
  2. What worked before no longer rocks your world.
  3. The changing body becomes your guide.
  4. You get used to uncertainty
  5. You want to give back
  6. You become much more than you thought you were.
  7. Your values change significantly
  8. You are getting a hefty whiff of you own mortality.
  9. The emergence of wisdom


Mid-life challenges that Coaching can assist with:

• Finding your Passion
• Removing FEAR from the Change Process
• Learning how to acknowledge and accept others
• Learning to Communicate at heart level
• Reconnect with your SELF
• Leaving Guilt Behind
• Trusting your instincts
• Creating a vision

About the author:
Frankie Picasso is a Certified Professional Guerrilla Life & Business Coach, Platinum Author, Motivational Speaker & Tele-class leader. Break free from your self-imposed limits and use your imagination to create a life of endless possibility. Experience your magnificence first hand... coachpicasso@sympatico.ca



Comic Relief

This is the road to enlightenment, revised...

1. Do not walk behind me, for I may not lead. Do not walk ahead of me, for I may not follow. Do not walk beside me for the path is narrow. In fact just leave me alone.

2. The journey of a thousand miles begins with a broken fan belt and a flat tyre.

3. The darkest hour is just before dawn. So if you' re going to steal your neighbour's milk, that' s the time to do it.

4. Sex is like air. It' s not important unless you aren't getting any.

5. Don' t be irreplaceable. If you can' t be replaced, you can' t be promoted.

6. Always remember you' re unique. Just like everyone else.



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By: Kadence Buchanan
 
When it comes to working out, there are literally thousands of different products which claim that they can assist your body in gaining muscle while burning fat. It can be quite difficult to sort out the truly effective products amongst the shams. In this article, we'll inform you about some of the most useful products that you can by to supplement your workout plan.

One product which has received a high amount of respect in the world of weightlifting is known as creatine monohydrate. This substance is produced in minute quantities within the body, and it helps the body by providing energy to the muscles. Since your muscles get extra energy when you take creatine, you can push your workout a few reps further, therefore increasing the likelihood of a muscle mass gain. It also causes water molecules to bond more efficiently to muscles, causing them to be of an increased size while on the formula. Be cautioned, though; when you stop taking creatine, you will lose much of this water-weight. Creatine is still efficient, however, due to the extra energy that it allows.

Creatine is often used in cycles by bodybuilders to ensure that their body does not face decreased creatine production, with a common regimen consisting of a twenty gram per day ‘loading period' for the first week, followed by three weeks of ten grams per day. Next, you skip taking creatine for four weeks. In this way, the body's natural creatine production is not altered by the supplementation.

Glutamine is another supplement that is often revered by serious bodybuilders. It performs a number of functions within the body, and it is the most abundant amino acid that can be found within the human skeletal muscle system. Those who take glutamine often find themselves having shorter recovery times, a boost in immune functioning, and a higher growth hormone output. All of these aspects can be most helpful to an aspring bodybuilder, and glutamine, creatine, and protein are the staples of most serious bodybuilders' supplement programs.

Be sure to read any health risks that a supplement may have before beginning a regimen - not every supplement is right for every type of person and it's important to do all that you can to protect your health.

About the author:
Kadence Buchanan writes articles on many topics including Sports, Games, and Recreation


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Starbuck's Coffee May Help Prevent Skin Cancer? 

By: Rusty Moore

Those "Double Tall Latte's" may be healthier than you think! A study at Rutgers University studied the effects of caffeine combined with exercise. What they found was very surprising. When used together, exercise and caffeine doubled the levels of a tumor-suppressing protein(phospho-p53).

So drinking coffee and exercising may prevent cancer in sun-damaged skin cells by increasing the level of a tumor-blocking protein in the body.

"We think this points out a need for more studies to see if the combination will protect people against sunlight-induced skin cancer," said the study's Senior Researcher, Allan Conney, the Director of the Laboratory for Cancer Research at Rutgers University.

This research was conducted as a result of a previous study on Green Tea. It was found that only the caffeinated version of Green Tea helped get rid of DNA damaged skin cells. The decaffeinated Green Tea had no effect to repair damaged skin cells.

Here is a Great Way to Combine Caffeine and Exercise for Maximum Benefits

  • Eat as little as possible 4-5 hours before your workout
  • 30 minutes before training drink two cups of coffee or 3 cups of Green Tea
  • Hit cardio hard for at least 30 minutes, since the caffeine will have an increased fat burning effect on an empty stomach

It looks like mother nature wants us to drink coffee! So Starbucks is a health food store...I knew it! Don't go crazy here...coffee and green tea is great as long as you don't load it down with sugar and cream. Stick with black coffee. My drink of choice is a "Double Tall Iced Americano". This is basically a fancy way of making iced coffee with espresso shots, water and ice. You can make a similar drink with brewed coffee, but it isn't quite the same.

I have always been a big believer of drinking a calorie-free caffeinated beverage on an empty stomach to have the best fat burning workout. Little did I know that caffeine was also reducing my chances of getting skin cancer. This is great news to all coffee drinkers out there!

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Stress and Erectile Dysfunction

By: Marc Deschamps

What's the connection between stress and sexual difficulties? Because it raises blood pressure and cholesterol, stress contributes to a greater risk of erectile dysfunction (ED). Under pressure, people tend to smoke, overeat and abuse alcohol, behaviors that also place men at higher risk for ED.

The brain is the key player in the physical process of creating an erection. If the part of the brain responsible for sending the necessary impulses to the penis receives negative and positive messages, it will respond by releasing chemicals that constrict the blood vessels in the penis and inhibit the natural process that causes an erection.

The debate about the underlying causes od ED finally seems to be over. It's now generally agreed that organic problems account for approximately 80% of cases of ED, whereas psychological factors alone are responsible for up to 20%. Organic factors include :

- Vascular disease
- Diabetes
- Abnormal nerve function
- Hormone deficiencies/abnormalities
- Surgical procedures
- Medication use
- Peyronie's (a condition causing curvature of the penis)
- Lifestyle factors such as smoking, alcohol use and poor diet

But having a chronic illness can cause psychological stress, which in turn may further increase a man's vulnerability to erectile difficulties. For example, studies suggest that roughly 20% of diabetic men with ED have symptoms consistent with a primarily mental or emotional origin. One study found that roughly 38% of ED cases in a sample of 75 diabetic men could be attributed primarily to psychological causes. Men and their partners who are able to cope effectively with the stress of disease are less likely to develop sexual difficulties, regardless of the presence of medical problems.

Although physiological damage is usually the source of impaired sexual responsiveness in diabetics, one study showed that this can improve spontaneously even in patients with diabetic neuropathy (nerve damage caused by diabetes), usually when they form a new realtionship or when marital conflict decreases. Rates of spontaneous remission of erectile dysfunction in men can range from 9% to 36%.

These examples point to the complex interplay between psychological and physiological factors. One thing is quite certain : even when the cause is a physical condition or medical illness, most men with ED feel psychological vulnerable and all men feel that their masculinity is threatened.

Women can pretend to be aroused, even they are not. Whether worried, distracted or stressed, women can often fake arousal and even orgasm, chances are that few men can honestly tell the difference. On the other hand, it is impossible for a man to fake an erection. Erectile dysfunction is obvious and repeated negative experiences can lead sex to become embarrassing and humiliating for men. A host of psychological problems such as anxiety, fear and even depression may follow.

Stress is virtually everywhere and no one seemms to be immune to its influence at one time or another. While it can take various forms and has different implications for individuals, it is clear that it has a huge impact on our quality of life and our sexual health. Hera are some key strategies to work on to help you take charge of your sexual life and keep stress at a manageable level for you :

- Better manage your time and do not cram your schedule
- Take time to talk to others
- Slow down!
- Do things that give you pleasure
- Seek solitude when needed
- Engage in relaxation exercises
- Maintain a healthy lifestyle, including exercises and proper diet

Proper management of your stress level is important. The benefits are immediate : you will feel more relaxed and experience an improvement in your sex life.

About the author:
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